Видео

that is unrealistic no matter how good a person is at the end of the day its in the human nature.

you want the best for the best in them lifeguard. both drown? nope. if you're aiming down, then can't.

Why this effin music? Peterson speaks. Thats it. Nobody needs musical sugarcoating on this.

Be Your own best friend first.

Or they lie and say they changed and you give them many chances and it always comes out the same. My supposed best friend told her husband my sister died because she was doing something she didn't want him to know. Then my sister did die, and they she couldn't come by because she lied to him.

Ugh. Not everyone wants to procreate. So annoying…

We just broke off a 8 year relationship because we are not able to combine our needs and goals for the future. I am 36 and am very scared I have made the wrong decision, will end up alone with less fulfilment than I have now. Anybody that has experience with this kind of situation which can offer me some advise would be very welcome to respond??

I like the last idea he was talking about, must be nice to hear more on that...

I had a toxic friend that hated when I got better grades and loved to punish me for that by pushing me or giving me a silent treatment.

TBH its either be handsome and/or rich

... "you're looking for someone who is going to judge you for your limitations" How profound!

Mam ogromny dystans do tego słowa przyjaciel..i tak już zostanie.

Rywalizować o kobietę ? Albo o mężczyznę Nigdy w życiu nie zniżyłam się do poziomu Pt"Oddaj mi faceta albo nie zabieraj mi faceta. Nie potrafię nie umie. Uważam ,że jeżeli jeszcze będąc w związku nie potrafiliśmy powalczyć werbalnie o Siebie to już nie ma sensu- Zdrada w miłości dla innego innej zdrada fizyczna - przy zdrowych zmysłach nikt nie zdradza bez powodu ot tak sobie - - propozycja pada chodźmy do psychologa dom psychoterapeuty , może coś wniesie w nasze życie nowego Dochodzi do absurdów. Dlatego Ja rezygnuje Jako kobieta z walki o mężczyznę który mnie zdradził wyssał wypluł dla chwili zaplanowanej przyjemności , nie mówię to ażeby nie walczyć powalczyć o swojego partnera związek miłość swojego życia ,bo i takie przypadki są.

Do unto others as you would like done unto you: It's about them not you, focus on them: 0:10, 6:15 When you have bad news you'd like to hear: I'm sorry, explain in more detail, how you feel, I'm always here to help if you need it's not a burden. You need to be able to listen to bad news and respond with compassion, not just analysis. You need to stay engaged and ask follow-up questions later if you really care. 0:30, 2:22, 6:32 When you have good news you'd like to hear: Wow, good job, how'd you do it, how do you feel after everything, you're a really hard worker, I admire you, I'm proud of you, you earned/deserve it, don't be modest. You need to be able to congratulate/celebrate them. Hype/bring them up and their achievements, make it known, and let them know that their work is acknowledged and that they are admired. Get them to brag/talk about their work/accomplishments to you. Let them know that this is how you perceive them. 0:00, 1:31, 7:15, 7:38 The heart of it is you want to be the type of person who wants the best for the best part of your friend. You want to see them reach their potential and therefore: are worried/concerned/helpful/supporting when something bad happens that could impede that path of development, and are extremely happy and proud and celebratory and rewarding when something good happens that takes them further along that path of development. 1:13, 2:54, 8:26 You train people how to treat you with how you respond to their positive treatment that you'd like to see repeated (if you respond positively/rewarding they'll continue). The same is true for how you respond to their negative treatment you'd like to see stop (you are assertive and communicate immediately/quickly that you don't like that). You also train people to talk to you and be closer to you with how positively/enthusiastically you respond/react to them in general (you get back what you put out/in).

Control Over pleasure.

I can relate....my mother is a narcissist...She's always right and never considers even her own children's feelings....

Have some self respect. Never sacrifice yourself for someone who will never do the same for you. Know your value.

not many girls worth having anymore.

Związek a kompromis ? Dużo się mieści "Kompromis" Dużo by mówić.

Hmmm okayy

lame background music

I've had 7 crushes or infatuations in my life. Not a single one was reciprocated. I am 46 years old now and still single, so my youth is gone and time just flew by. Recently, I checked up on some old crushes I had on Facebook. They are married with kids, but I have nothing and it stings. Part of the problem is I can't seem to get over this one girl. Those old feelings got kicked up again after 27 years and I don't know why. It seems I never really got over her. I was merely distracted by life events. How the heck do I heal from this?

This is not the guy you want to be taking dating advice from. "Feminists have an unconscious wish for brutal male domination"-JP, ouch, someone had a rough adolescence.

it's even a lot harder when you're an introvert overly sensitive people pleaser.. I find myself keep running from men. met this wonderful man, 3 years younger than me, has 7 children from all different women, he has a hard life in his twenties, prison and everything, but he's been kind to me, even though his blunt style often wound my fragile heart, I know deep inside he's care about me, but then in the end I realized he wasn't ready for a marriage, plus I'm halfway around the world from him, maybe I'm just not good enough so I decided to left. it's been sucks, can't remember how much tears I shed I'm not that strong

la fin avec contend c'est bien

As long as she knows religion and politics don’t matter at all what so ever

I've found the good news thing to be the most significant part. I've found it's often pretty easy to find people who will help you when you're down - at a cost. The cost is their having to broadcast to you and the world what a fabulous superior person they are to take pity on poor wretched you. What is much harder to find is the person Dr. Peterson is talking about who will genuinely share in your joys. That is how you know you have a real friend.

Looks, wealth and status…oh, and being a violent, dominant alpha male. This is what they like. 🤷‍♂

im afraid that i will never find love again. that is the worst because I set that as the highest goal in life. Work isn't life. work is just to get money, nothing to be excited for. 5 years in the relationship just gone. each day really makes me suffer.

Honesty at the beginning of a relationship coming from both men and women, as well as a cold analysis of the relationship are really important for not making mistakes down the road.

I got it wrong. It cost me twenty years, and my immediate crazy family. Or it got rid of them, and i didn't leave. No divorce. Just bad choices in three chances from both parties. At 21 years old with a life plan, she had another plan while I was working. I lose everything For decades. Then, Prison was my future years later from anger.

This guy’s speech is all based on scarcity and fear. Not my reality.

Lovely

I'm 30 and never had any kind of intimacy with a woman. Not really happy about it, but I guess at least the advantage is that I never had to worry about relationships or heartbreaks. I'm trying to see the bright side of things.

5:32

It cost me 25 yrs of marriage and 28 years of life I’m now 52 yrs old and struggling to start over if it hadn’t been for all the blessings from our Savior through my family I honestly don’t know where I would be what I would be doing or if I would leave me alive😢

Reproduction isn't for every lady. In many cases, it's better don't have a child. Stop putting pressure on us

Why did they add that flashing at around a minute in

I will never get a girl. That is past life karma.

Meanwhile Instagram thots be like...

Woman dont know what they´re doing. Those, who took part in studies marked the "right" answers bec they think they are better than other participants "b**ches". In reality they start arguing why they do the opposite.

The title of this video is misleading.

moral of the story: only eat chicken + vegatables

Zero chances

Lost 20 on the wrong marriage

Truth .

I don’t want 5 I want 1

Gabor Mate' made the observation that we attract our partners based on our unresolved childhood trauma and wounds. Makes perfect sense.

I’m not happy right now with my fiancé, living Upstate, no family no friends and nowhere to walk too … I’m 53 and feel like my life is over, very boring up here so it’s a big decision to make in one way, yet simple Get the hell outta here !!!

Sound advice